Recommended readings for Tantrikas
The world of Tantra is very difficult to navigate. On one side you have the neo tantrics who don't care about anything and just do what ever. On the other side you have gurus who abuse their power and sexual abuse is everywhere.
The path of Tantra is like walking on the edge of a knife, but navigating the world of tantra now is also like walking on the edge of the knife. See clearly what is going on and avoid being trapped in the many traps that almost all Tantra groups have made for their members. Genuine Tantric Gurus are hard to find so it is highly recommended to first do a lot of reading before interacting with any guru or group.
Find out what you really want with this Tantric path and only when you have that clear see what tradition is helping you with that goal and see if there are actually genuine teachers teaching that path as well. And when you finally decide to interact with a teacher, stay in your center, don't give your power away and for sure never let your teacher use your power and energies because vampires are real in the world of Tantra. Good luck!
Recommended reading for Tantrikas:
The multi orgasmic man by Mantak Chia
Sakti and sakta by John Woodroffe
Tantra Illuminated: The Philosophy, History, and Practice of a Timeless Tradition
Yoni Shakti: A Woman's Guide to Power and Freedom Through Yoga and Tantra
German Podcast toxic tantra in English
Danish and Swedish podcasts in English